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    bbloves is offline Member
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    Default The lies begin.....more questions

    So the sheriff came thismorning to serve my papers from my husband. He has the nerve to put in there that my child currently resides with him.

    He works m - f 8am to 8pm.

    He picks up our child friday night after work and brings him home sunday night.

    If he has an extra day off, I let him have him.

    I can work any days I want and any time, I have a VERY flexible schedule. I plan on being there to take my child to school and pick him up, and put him to bed. He is in the middle of being diagnosed with Aspergers, and needs STRUCTURE AND ROUTINE.

    So My husband lies on the papers and says he currently has custody. Then fills out the shared parentingicon form asking to have our child starting Wednesday at 5pm until Sunday at 1pm. This is a back door way for him to get "custody" for his mother because his mother has interfered in this entire seperation, she even filled out his petition. How he can even think of yanking our child out of his home during school days shows he is not thinking of his needs at all. What he is asking for means that my child won't be with his father wednesday, thursday, and friday, but with his grandmother since my husband works till 8pm. My husband has never been to a doctor appt, dentist, school meeting, asperger's testing, nothing. this is all his mother's doing. My question is:

    Is it possible this can happen? There is nothing he has on me as a bad parent, I'm in law enforcement, have a supreme record, I am in charge of our teen program at work, I have never been in trouble.

    Won't the courts want my child to stay with his routine that he is used to? I am VERY concerned about this because of his disability.

    Thanks

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    All petitions look worse than the situation really is. You have to ask for everything in the petition or you may not be able to ask for it at a later date.

    It really depends on the judgeicon if the courts will grant a schedule like your husband suggested. However, the issues you bring up as to his work schedule weigh greatly in your favor that he won't be getting the child on school nights.

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