Need advice ASAP, Please & Thank you.

[sunshine1234]

Sorry if its long.
My problem:
I am almost 9 months pregnant and I am not with the dad of the baby anymore. He thinks that my daughter will be going to his house and says that neither my mom or me can do anything about it. I take that as a threat, the reason why I dont want my daughter at his house is because his dad left a voicemail on my moms phone back on feb.14 and it was a threat and what not. I never filed anything because I thought things would get better between us but he ended up dumping me (feb.15) because I got angry and scream out at him. Also he says he can have his new girlfriend (not even 3 months after we broke up) around my daughter and i told him no. i get all these stupid emails from him and when we speak on the phone i tend to just yell at him and get extremely upset and he hasnt even given one dime for the medical bills, my mom is the one paying for it all. I did say to myself I wouldnt mind if he and ONLY him come see my daughter at my house but I DO NOT want his parents or sister around my baby. What can I do to keep them away? Im tired of him accusing my mother that she "said she would hit him" which is not true. If I could keep him away too, it would be great because he hasnt done anything to help with bills nor nothing just stupid emails asking if were okay or just accusing and what not. Lately is when he has started to annoy me more because he knows the baby should be born in sep. but at the beginning of my pregnancy it seemed as if we never meant anything to him.

Questions:
1.What can I do to keep his parents away from my baby? I will put a restraining order on the grandfather.
2. He doesnt seem to want to take me to court, so can I keep the baby away from him? Like ignore his calls and emails which most of my pregnancy I have done it? He says he'll do the DNA testing because I asked him because his father started to say that my daughter wasnt even his and he even dared to ask me if I had slept with an ex of mine, so even denied her as well.
3. Should I get a lawyer or wait till he makes a move, if he even tries?

Thank you for any advice I get and I am soooo sorry its long, I just wanted to kinda sum up the situation and this is not even a quarter of it. I am just overwhelmed and dont know what to even do anymore, wish he could just forget I existed.

[Attorney Howard Iken]

You can't keep the father or his family away from the child. At least, not through the courts. You should do some careful thinking about what you want the future to look like for your child. Even though you are not married, it would be a positive thing for your child to grow up with two parents.

[sunshine1234]

Thank you for your reply.