husband wants to leave me, but don't want divorce

[NV34]

Hello,

I need to find out my rights in my marriage situation. I have been married for 4 years and my husband decides that he is not happy and he wants to leave me. First, he asks me to leave the house to him and that I should leave because I always have stable job! He is planning live in the house and don’t paid the mortgage and then left the house go to foreclosure. Nice! I told him that his decision to abandon me and separate of me and he is the one that have to go. I told him that I want to stay marriage make things work. I support this man for 2 years when he didn’t have a job and never went to vacation before he got married. After we got married he was able to have 2 or 3 vacations per year and now he got a job and start making money want to kick me out his life! Also, now he only spends all his time with co-workers drinking and partying every weekend. He spends all his money doing what he wants to do. He said that he still young (32) and he deserve to be happy and have fun. He doesn’t want to be tie down. His circles of friend are people from 20 to 27 years old! He said that he loves me but he doesn’t going to change his behavior because he needs his friends and this is only thing he has left. So, who I am for him? I don’t know? His parents are really upset with his behavior that’s why he feels that way I guess. He said that he is drinking, b/c he feel guilty that he is hurting me bad. But he think is better to leave me so I can be free. Yeah right! So I ask him are you going to give me the divorce. Wait for this one….. He doesn’t going to give me divorce. So, he doesn’t want divorce, but he wants to party, drinking, go out with his friend and behave like single man. He told me that I can’t ask him anything of what he is doing. He goes and come and stay sleeping out when he got drunk and come home 2 or 3 in the morning. Sometimes he doesn’t come back at all. I told him to move with his friend since he loves to be with them. He told me he can’t move with them. He said that I have to wait till he have the money to leave, which I don’t know when will happened because he spending all his money. Again, he told me that why I don’t leave. I told him I want him stop hurting with his behaves and leave do his life. He doesn’t want to leave house of course I feel he is using me b/c he needs a place!!!! I work really hard for this house and I don’t go anywhere. He said that he have not cheating me, but he is sleeping in different room and he put lock in his phone, sleep with door close and delete everything that he go online. Also, he has a face book account that he change the password so I can’t see his page and don’t include me in this acct. He hides everything so I can see what he posts. Also, he didn’t put that he is married.
I am so sick of this. I want to save my marriage, but this is horrible what this man is doing. I need help. I want to take him out, but I know I don’t have rights because he is the mortgage as secondary. Also, his car is under my name and everything is under my name!!! He has horrible credit. I just want to protect myself after he finally do something worst that he have been done like sleep with someone else, so I have biblical base to file divorce. I am Christian woman, so we only can start divorce if our spouse commits adultery or fornication. Please help.

[Attorney Howard Iken]

I am not sure if there was a specific question here.