7 Common Divorce Myths
1. One divorce lawyer is a good as another.
There is a tremendous difference between divorce lawyers. Some are down to earth and some are distant and hostile. Some call you back the same day and some wait 5 days to call you. There are divorce attorneys that only practice in divorce and marital law. Others are like a jack of all trades – they practice in divorce, criminal law, bankruptcy, etc. But remember the old saying – “Jack of all trades, master of none.” At The Divorce Center, we only practice in divorce and matrimonial law.
2. In a divorce, the mother always gets the kids.
Not true anymore. Florida divorce law now treats men and women alike when it comes to custody decisions. Does this mean men get custody more than women? You already know the answer to that – women still appear to get custody more often than men. But men should take heart because the Florida Statutes on divorce are now more of a level playing field for custody battles.
3. Divorce through an attorney is completely unaffordable.
Divorce will always be an expensive process. But there are more alternatives than ever. There are do-it-yourself divorce forms you can use to get your divorce done. And there are attorney’s that offer partial representation. This can take the form of paperwork preparation or one-time consultation. Check out our easysavr legal service.
4. My children will be screwed up permanently by this divorce.
Not only is this not necessarily true, but the answer will depend on you and your spouse. Both of you must guide the children through this process with a problem solving approach. At The Divorce Center, we gladly give you free copies of books that will guide you and your children through this emotional time.
5. This is easy and I can do my own divorce without help.
Partially true but BEWARE! Divorce can be complex or it can be simple. Your best bet is to start off with our discounted - $90 consultation. We will make you aware of the major pitfalls. After a short 30 minutes consultation with our divorce attorneys, you will be more able to calculate the risks and rewards of doing it yourself.
6. If my spouse doesn’t pay child support, he/she won’t be allowed to see the kids.
Not true. Florida law is very specific about this. Visitation with the kids will go on whether or not child support is paid.
7. My name is on the deed or title, so it is mine.
Not true. A judge can change that with a stroke of the pen. Property distribution goes according to Florida law, not by whose name is on the title. For more info, see the property section in our education center.
Divorce can be the single most important event in your life. Make sure you gather lots of information so you can make informed decisions. Many people can benefit from the advice of a good, honest, loyal divorce attorney. The Divorce Center can provide a divorce attorney that can help you protect yourself. A lawyer is not an expense in a divorce case - they are an investment. We help clients in Hernando County, Pasco County, Pinellas County, and Hillsborough County. Our service area includes Tampa, Clearwater, Largo, New Port Richey, Brooksville, Dade City, and the New Tampa area. CONTACT US NOW or call 888-469-3486